I would like to share a few points which are establishing OLQ-Officer Like Qualities within us. Let me share this with your friends. The below said things are so common for all of the individuals in our society so nothing to worry about this. Though we dream to become a gentleman, I feel, we should follow these changes if needed to become finer and finest 🙂
1) Avoid third-party way of speech.
Eg. Expressing a negative thought of self as said by someone or towards an organization.
This can be avoided by giving things with a smiling face. This establishes social adjustment of us. Through this we can win people day by day, our thoughts and speech are given much importance in the group. Though if any of the individuals approach you with negative or blaming speech, avoid the same with a smiling face. It doesn’t mean that we don’t have the capability to give a solution for that, we are lions to give the solution at the right place and at the right time. keep this in mind guys.
2) Taking the responsibility for the group if any mistake is done by others and giving the credit to the group even though it is done by the self.
This is one of the perfect leadership qualities. i.e standing in front of the group if issues arise and giving the group in front if credits arise.
3) Doing constructive things (hobbies) in free time. This sharps our minds and gives us innovative ideas in our regular professional life. Through this, we don’t have free time to sit idle and think. If we keep ourselves busy with multiple constructive works, our mind automatically starts to think positively. So no time to think negative 🙂
4) Doing more self-analysis and maintaining a chart to read our graph. In life, everything is a measurement, so reading ourselves and mapping our performance is a superior act. This gives self-improvement. Since, if we are able to analyse the self, then at a threshold level we can able to analyse the group.
5) We are the best, so no comparison with others. We are the best soul for ourselves and we should not compare ourselves to others. In fact, no competition for you guys, since you are the best in the world. Just do self-analysis and improve your skills. This way of approach improves us day by day and also reduces our competitive mindset. The same is required in the armed forces as there is no competition while working in a group only group dynamics are expected.
