Life has knocked me down a few times. It showed me things I never wanted to see. I experience sadness and failures. But one thing is for sure. I always get up. Yes the saying goes right, there might be many failures but every time people get up and try in a new way. Failures make new way for human beings and are necessary part of life. Imagine life without failure, all happy happy and go lucky type but then would humans really know what happiness exactly means. Would then the intensity of happiness the same as it is now? I believe no, today happiness seems to be effective because we know what failure means and how to handle it. After long failures there comes a spark which ignites the internal self and makes person more dedicated to achieve what he or she has lost elsewhere. And after so much hard work and patience when the success is achieved then the feeling is altogether different.
Failures can be avoided by the following:
- Hardworking has no other substitute so don’t even try to look for some alternative. This is the best way to achieve results
- Practice makes a man perfect and yes keep on practicing
- Be yourself else if you would try to change yourself for the sake of anyone or someone special you will lose the essence of your original personality
- Time management is the key to success. There would be many options in life where you can waste your time and then suffer at the end. Don’t try to do that and constantly manage time as it’s the most precious commodity.
- Think smartly as the generation change is widely visible and you can see the difference in thought process. Hence sharpen your memory
- Innovation brings about a change in life , so bring that change for excelling
- Have faith in yourself and believe nothing is impossible for you. Keep doing the work without bothering for others as the general public will try to bring you down as they cannot move ahead instead.
- Be calm and have faith in you GOD
- Though you will be repeater by failing once in SSB, but this does not mean the assessors would expect something more from you. You have to consistently improve yourself through self-introspection and realise that what are the weak areas for improvement. There are various tools that facilitate change and help in doing the introspection.
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