In the fast moving life it has become the tendency of human to take short cut in life and achieve success. If we exclude the adult population of our country and see the youth which forms the major chunk of our young India, they are mostly influenced by this culture to gain success with shortcuts in life. Some might achieve but believe me if the fundamentals are not strong, such success is not stagnant for a long time. Success achieved with strong fundamentals and hard work is always valued and lives long. We might be proud of young India but personally I am worries with this habit of youngsters. I am more worried with people who want to dedicate themselves for serving our motherland by joining defence forces and are habitual to such things.
Has any big personality is ever found saying that I achieved the position by shortcuts or in a small town. There are few who are born with the silver spoon in their mouth. But remember you and I don’t belong to that category. Why? Simple you are reading this article because you want to dedicate yourself to motherland and I have written to it because this is something close to my heart and I have done a lot of research in this area.
I want to propose the youth involved in preparing to dedicate their lives for motherland that at least the factor of LUCK does not work for SSB. You have to prove your qualities to get recommendation here and that’s it. Remember “SSB is a battle and you have to fight here bravely ~~ Jayendra Pratap Singh” I coined this based on the experience with my mentees whom I mentor personally , studying their personality , OLQ’s and events of life that might have affected their life at many stages and believe me this introspection only helps in personality improvement. Once personality is improved nothing can stop you from getting to win the battle. But what we do:
- We want short cut to success and start following the myths related to SSB which effects our understanding of things.
- We start thinking TAT/PPDT as story writing completion and write same stories provided in books which has a not match to our personality. Remember that if one story is good for a particular personality it might not be good for other if it has no match with your personality so you have to write accordingly.
- Taking assistance is not bad but in large chunks might not cause benefit because SSB is something where you have to gauge your personality and I believe each and every individual is different and needs different attention and treatment as per their persona. So try assistance with an expert who can give you full time for yourself to understand what you are , where you stand and where you could be taken.
You all will be surprised to know that everyone has all the qualities but the events and incidents in life’s changes the degree in which they are present, and hence you have to understand that only and work on it, success will surely be yours. Still If you feel the need of individualised assessment and mocks from your home itself through mentoring or counselling that I provide or you have a query bothering your mind which hinders your preparation drop me a mail at jayendrapsingh@gmail.com or add me on Fb and drop in a message. It would be a pleasure to help and resolve queries and clear doubts which are more often myths that are present in the place. SSB is all about revealing yourself and nothing else needs to be done apart from regularly updating your knowledge and adding value to yourself.
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